It was supposed to be easy...

We tried to be responsible, wait until we were ready financially and emotionally. I was there first but the nine years between DH and I matter sometimes. This was one of those times. So we got ready, quit smoking, cut out caffeine, changed to a healthier diet, started exercising more and went off BC. And nothing happened. So we started charting and temping and learned my cycles backwards and forwards. And nothing happened. This is where we are now. Limbo. Everyone in our families gets pregnant easily, it was supposed to be easy for us too. It's not, none of it is easy.